going back to the topic...about marriage...for woman if some one ask her hand to marry, and should start this way, he has the right to approved it or not that is her right.

well some may say the girl might just say yes just to please her father or whoever even though she doesnt love the man. well its okey coz its done out of obedience... and besides in islam marriage will brought you love,Allah will put love between the couple, the sooner they get to know each other the better it will become.

some the marriage may not work well,bcoz of so and so, it might happened, however, what ever consequences therein it was done in a legal way or they could end to divorce.

this is in opposite to "live in" relationship wherein the couple is not binded by any law, no responsibility at all,be it personal or social, instead they'll create a problematic society.

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