the title of the thread is NOT FOR QATARIS MARRIAGE.

Don't forget that NO ONE IS PERFECT. This way someone can write books on your people also.

As we said, Rules of Allah (God) in the Quran cannot be ruled out or Changed by anyone. If someone is doing against the rules that is purely as individual act and they are answerable for their deeds.

You may refer to Mr. Moin Khan post above for more clarifications in the Holy Quran.

As Pikey said:
"Should Women be allowed to choose their prospective Husbands, My vote is Yes they should be allowed it is both their Human and Religious right."

Simple :-)