how we treat our children whether in private or public shld be the same...consistency as i've said...

but we shouldn't be COMPLACENT and too trusting as well...

however we raise our children, a lot of factors will always change them and re-mold them...every parents' nightmare...we just pray that they will turn out to be the GOOD person that we want them to be...

no argument in here i guess... diffrent strokes with different folks...