BUGSY, the post was not meant to be "funny"...don't apologize..
but still LOL DRACULA!!!
i was never spanked neither verbally abused .. and i grew up fine...
what we let our children see (however good they are) at home doesn't always stick with them... they get pitched in the real world and that's where the real scary story comes in....
it's up to us elders "to go to them, so they can come to us" and have a talk about things.... and then we can teach them and discipline them without really giving them the "iron-hand discipline"
tendency for children today is...you show them your stern side and they will look for tenderness somewhere else... and they might end up in the wrong places looking for that...
BUGSY, the post was not meant to be "funny"...don't apologize..
but still LOL DRACULA!!!
i was never spanked neither verbally abused .. and i grew up fine...
what we let our children see (however good they are) at home doesn't always stick with them... they get pitched in the real world and that's where the real scary story comes in....
it's up to us elders "to go to them, so they can come to us" and have a talk about things.... and then we can teach them and discipline them without really giving them the "iron-hand discipline"
tendency for children today is...you show them your stern side and they will look for tenderness somewhere else... and they might end up in the wrong places looking for that...
***feed my ignorance***