starts at home...ask yourself WHY??? Your wife should be the one who is your bestfriend ... its the reason why we get married, to have somebody to talk with, share the ups and downs of life and specially sharing the future... Dont ever wonder why in all your years here in DOha and you dont have a special friend..simply because of YOU.... Being straightforward and a little offensive is the best ingredients for a one person if they dont want to be friends with others...