Thank you Novita... that was the whole purpose of posting this: to get help and not to read some useless comments judging things they don't have a clue abt... yes we were toooo good to her.. she wasn't clean she wasn't doing a big thing at home.. i kept her becz i trusted her to stay with my son who is 2 when we were with my husband at work...that was the most important thing... and only yesterday we knew from my friend's maid that she was pregnant.. so i don't know if u can understand my fear... she was alone at home every day with MY SON.. she might had her boyfriend come around..