Haven't we been through this before? Can't remember where but it's somewhere on QL. Aaahh well .. I see QL comfortingly does not change much... the advantage of repeats is new inputs.

Well said, MissX.

"Women, loaded with concealed self-esteem issues need to prove to themselves, and the world, that they are worth something, and have value to contribute."

I wonder if the same applies vice versa... "Now a nice gal poses no challenge, as friendly as she is, she does not invoke that extra passion and desperate need that men so often are seeking. "

- Case in point - a few friends who have had long time gfs who were so accommodating to them just went with the flow and didn't bother to commit but when they met a bad girl, they upped and left their gfs and married the bad girls. And then come and whine some time later that they made a mistake.

When both men and women genuinely overcome their self-esteem issues then there will be a proper balance.

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