I can certainly relate to the riginal topic. While I am a married guy, but I am struggling with my wife. Nowadays women are very difficult to please, and keep happy. The thought of old fashion ladies is very attractive, not because they are brainless, but they are content and realistic.

Todays women are very very selfcentred. The last thing they think about is others, so be it husbend/boyfriend or kids.

To the person who started this thread, I would say, 40 is not too old. Maybe you need to look after your physical apperance and the way you present yourself, and the rest will come with time. I am in 40's, however, if you see me you parly give me 30. I go to the gym, run, left weight, and enjoy my life.