I agree with miss X, lots of truth in it. I think one of the problems is that these men tend to give a wonderul impression before getting the girl, they hook you up with their passion and character. But once they're secure about the girl, things have a differnt turn and the woman is stuck, wishing for him to be like when they first met. My advise, leave b4 it's too late and damaging. if he really wants you, he'll come back...That was my mother's advise and always works. but of course, don't be a jerk thinking..let him follow me! one day he'll just leave!