I dont think by complying with some of these points makes you loose your individuality or demean us as women. I do take offense to the fact that this article has some points which devalue a woman, such as the point saying his conversational topics are more important that his wives.

I also hate that the word "obedience" has come into this topic. Dogs are meant to be obedient, not people. If I follow what my husband says to me it is out of understanding and a mutual respect but this goes both ways and I have choosen to listen based on the pros and cons, not out of obligation.

We had this article presented to us in high school. When I showed my Grandma she laughed and said "Now you know why all of us drank so much in those days".

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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"