Sorry DMS, but I just cannot concede that either a man or a woman has his 'place'.

I also don't believe that a husband has a 'role' and a 'duty', other than to provide support for his wife where needed.

Otherwise, yes, I am totally for a marriage where either side can be wherever he or she wants to be at any given time.

We are in stark disagreement on the whole place issue, it's as simple as that.

A wife/partner/boyfriend/girlfriend/whatever does not have a place in my opinion, and I don't see why you believe that one is needed.