MissX said I think you will find dmigty ...that you are in the minority. Intelligent men do not want a maid as a wife, they want their equal. It's a partnership in every sense of the word. Suggesting men want women to be compliant and obedient is as offensive to many men as it is to women. "

Depends on whose perspectives - pros and cons to every situation. Generally, Asian men think like dms. And so too do others who have been unlucky in the past - they prefer the conservative view. Eg. the Western men who go for poorer Asian women. While it's easy to paint them with the same brush of negativity but there's more to it than that. Many intelligent men find that their "equal" can be quite a handful and quite often, too difficult to handle and probably too expensive in the long run. It depends on so many things.

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