I think if Chen was a super religious person concerned with being condemed by the church they wouldnt have a 'lover' in the first place as this is also a sin in the church isnt it?

Third cousins arent that closely related. It never ceases to amaze me the pepper we can add to things sometimes. By society you mean general people you will meet in your life then who gives a toss? If it is your family you are concerned with you will have to ask them. As for church acceptance, just google it.

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