It's easily said and easily done dmigty. Anyone who uses 'embarrassment' or whatever as an excuse is not a fit parent.

If a child is brought up from an early age to understand their are limits and boundaries to what it can have and do then you wont get tantrums that are so bad parents go to jail.

And as for parents going to jail because their kids cry, I find that hard to believe. And if a kid is crying that much it's probably being abused, is hurt, or has an illness.