As an Oxford educated lawyer shouldn't you:

a) realise that an internet forum is not representative of a country

b) have a profile that doesn't directly contradict your first forum post?

"Hi, my name is Lucy and new to Doha. Here with my husband and I am hating it. Not got a job yet and live in a Villa that is miles away from anybody. No kids, so can't even do the school Mum, thing I hear so much about.

I hope this can help me to endear myself to Doha; at the moment I hate it."