Is he responsible for receiving a sms from his ex-gf?
Is that your friend's problem or because he saved her name under someother name?

If he was really expecting her SMS..he would have kept the phone with him. Probably he saved her name under someother name just to avoid such situations at home.

Your friend could have handled it wisely (without blaming him).....by asking him..is she still bothering you with PMs? Do you want me to tell her not to text/call you again...etc etc...

What he did with the gift is wrong...maybe he was innocent in this situation and when she accused him..he might have lost control..:(