does this wife have a proof that ‘relationship’ of her husband with another girl are mutual? It is very possible that the girl keeps following him, and he just cannot stop it. It doesn’t mean he is cheating on his wife. Receiving the messages/phone calls from ex’s are pretty normal… Maybe she can react somehow different, or not to react at all… why did she open his mobile and have read the message in the first place? Even if he is her husband, he is not in her possession...he is not one of her belongings… She shouldn’t have read the message, she could ask him who sent him the message instead at least…
but midniteboy, what the hell is that suppose to mean: “men must have an option coz wife never give that much that husband deserves”.. are you out of your freaking mind?.. what is that idiotic statement?

azzi, I wouldn’t agree on this… it is wrong decision just to pack and walk away. If every time for every stupid reason we had to pack and walk away, no one couple would stay together for more than couple of years.. do you think these couples who live together for entire life never had any problems? And their marriage was as beautiful as paradise?? Wrong! They also had enough of its own sh*t, but they were wise enough to overcome the issues…
Advise your freind to be wiser, leave the guy alone and get busy with something else... let her try to pay less attention to him, she will see, she will be missed more... tested and proved.. ;):)

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