I doubt very much that every relationship has ONE universal remedy, different relationships have different reasons for their ups and down and thus only after figuring out the reason can anyone give you advice on it.

But i see your problem here mate, your married, you have a girlfriend, and you got caught by her family? to preserve and maintain a happy relationship u should not get caught :p jk

Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)

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