Agree with fieryangelinthesky, "THE ONE" doesn't exist. There will be many possibilities and you choose one. The many possibilities still remain so the one (note: no capitals) you choose, better not take you for granted, etc. etc... So go out there and socialize, have more friends. The world will seem nicer and you might "discover yourself" - as in you might not be gay after all.

/But don't intro yourself as your ID here - preconceived perceptions usually mess up getting to know you as who you really are. "Reinvent" yourself, behave in person and watch your back.

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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama