Roadtester - ".. Is it kind of a viscious circle, women aren't supposed to sexualise themselves, and will pretty much be virgins/inexperienced but the guys will have some experience. They will then see their wife as 'boring' or bad at sex and then cheat/hookers etc"

- You've got a very good point there. Many of my guy friends say that they'd prefer to have a sexually experienced woman as their partner and it takes too much time and effort when they just want to have fun. They may be preoccupied with themselves but they're ok with their partners being selfish too. I suppose, you could say that that's the Western or a modern mindset, a permissive one - because freedom is paramount.

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