well said, ummjake .. "... by and large, it's the attitude that your wife is special, like a rare jewel, and so you only do proper things with her.

... I hope it starts becoming more par for the course here that young couples present their partner with a certificate that they are free from STDs before the marriage. .."

Lol! Last para - precisely!

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