ummjake, "...Women are more IN it all the time...but once they DO check out, there is little chance of turning back, I think."

- Absolutely true for most women. Patience can stretch on for a long time but if they cross that line, it's over.

"married man goes home with some single chick.. Assume the chick knows he is married."

- BOTH are to blame - he for being too weak to honour his commitments and she for being selfish and not thinking further about the hurt caused to his family.

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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama