what a nice essay..
and yes.. real love cannot be conditional... otherwise don't call it LOVE...Love is self-sacrifice…
Does anyone remember when did he/she sacrifice last time?
And yeah, we don't know how to live in present.. we have feelings that this is only a draft, a rehearsal of the performance called "Life", and we will start living a real life tomorrow...no...
.. life is passing too fast.. Learn to appreciate a present MOMENT

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“You become responsible forever for what you have tamed”. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry