you are about to drive around inside your compound small R/A\,then you turn left going to the open parking lot, it's nigh time (around 8-9pm, the lot is not well-lighted yet then suddenly out from the cars already parking a small boy of -5 years old came out, he's standing just in front your landcruiser car, almost next to your bumper. You have to step on your break, right? The boy's height is 3-4 ft. tall maybe smaller, can you see him now? The mother is just around there standing & chatting with some friends. How do you feel when you're the one behind the wheels? Tell me.

"I do live by the motto that pessimists are usually right, but all the great change in history was done by optimists" -Thomas Friedman