Ok so your saying that if your child does something "stupid" to may be embarrass you in public, you'll just sit tight? People have their own ways of correcting their own kids. When i was a kid, i didnt do as good as my elder sister in studies, she was this all rounder kid in school, took part in anything and everything, my mom used to always say things like you'll not be as good as her blah blah, but that only motivated me to do better, i didnt lock myself in my room feeling sorry for myself, and no i never once thought i was any less than her, and that only made me achieve more and i'm still not better than her nor do i want to me coz this is ME and i know what i'm capable of. You call a 9 yr old kid stupid and the next moment u give her a ice cream, what do u think she's going to remember more? Some parents have a funny way of dealing with their child, doesnt mean they love them any less, better or worse. THAT is my point.
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
Ok so your saying that if your child does something "stupid" to may be embarrass you in public, you'll just sit tight? People have their own ways of correcting their own kids. When i was a kid, i didnt do as good as my elder sister in studies, she was this all rounder kid in school, took part in anything and everything, my mom used to always say things like you'll not be as good as her blah blah, but that only motivated me to do better, i didnt lock myself in my room feeling sorry for myself, and no i never once thought i was any less than her, and that only made me achieve more and i'm still not better than her nor do i want to me coz this is ME and i know what i'm capable of. You call a 9 yr old kid stupid and the next moment u give her a ice cream, what do u think she's going to remember more? Some parents have a funny way of dealing with their child, doesnt mean they love them any less, better or worse. THAT is my point.
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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