Tallg:
1) Misunderstanding
My "to the point" way of commenting has come across as rude when it wasn't supposed to have, or my attempt at humour has been taken seriously.
2) Deserved
Some posted something stupid/rude/etc that deserved the response it got from me."
- Ditto -
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Mlasrado, agreed with your comment but with respect to your "I dont see a problem why you are getting so disturbed about other people's discussions?"
- She's just bringing this out in the open in the hopes that people would remember to be more compassionate when they speak because words can wound a person very deeply emotionally and cause untold damaging consequences - like that kid in Germany.
Anyway, for what it's worth, Aisha's post made me more aware of how I post. I am also very direct - and not just online but offline as well. Many people cannot take that kind of honesty because they have fragile egos and a lack of self awareness, some lack IQ and/or EQ. Offline, I will give "face" and avoid hurting people's feelings up to an extent. I should do the same online as well.
/Btw, the key words being "up to an extent"
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
Tallg:
1) Misunderstanding
My "to the point" way of commenting has come across as rude when it wasn't supposed to have, or my attempt at humour has been taken seriously.
2) Deserved
Some posted something stupid/rude/etc that deserved the response it got from me."
- Ditto -
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Mlasrado, agreed with your comment but with respect to your "I dont see a problem why you are getting so disturbed about other people's discussions?"
- She's just bringing this out in the open in the hopes that people would remember to be more compassionate when they speak because words can wound a person very deeply emotionally and cause untold damaging consequences - like that kid in Germany.
Anyway, for what it's worth, Aisha's post made me more aware of how I post. I am also very direct - and not just online but offline as well. Many people cannot take that kind of honesty because they have fragile egos and a lack of self awareness, some lack IQ and/or EQ. Offline, I will give "face" and avoid hurting people's feelings up to an extent. I should do the same online as well.
/Btw, the key words being "up to an extent"
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama