have not read all the posts above but Aisha you are right. i repeat what you said in your post

'To all the rude members who think that they are better than all of us, YOU grow up, YOU get a life!! and stop bullying the other members who didn't do anything to you.'

at work, on my monitor, i have a post-it note with a quote that i would like to share with you all.

Be careful when you fight the monsters, lest you become one - Friedrich Nietzsche