"for almost 4 years they dont stop helping others.and some of his friends they borrow money but now they dont return his money" --- sorry to sound like a selfish one here, but if he and his family were in such a mess already, how come he still went on lending money to others? don't get me wrong, i don't have anything against helping others, i am all for it, but only to the extent of what you can give... it's ok to say no to someone borrowing money if you really dont have the means of doing so...

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