Janei62, if I were you I'd dump the PC in the bathtub when you sweetheart is bathing, who knows some electic shock may get his brain back to normal...
His behaviour is simply not acceptable!
You should seriously talk to him, and if he keeps going with this bullshit, dump him here alone in Doha and take your kids back to your country! Or at least threaten him to do so... you need to wake him up!!!