Kids at the age of 12-14 are still considered as children. That's the time they start understanding their existence but their innocent feelings were brutally crushed by this maniac. I can imagine what fear & trauma they must have undergone by not able to understand why this father figure is behaving in an uncomfortable way & then the trauma they underwent thru him. I am sure they must have hid the reality at first because no one wants to be accused of such things but later on their only hope & protection, their mum, also turned them down they were left of no choice. I am sure for first few times they must have reacted very badly & tried to defend themselves but any child of such age is helpless & powerless in front of a man double or triple their age. What I feel that once they knew that no one is going to save them & they lost their faith & hope in the most respectful relations, they must have given up to his wishes, because whatever is happening forcefully let it happen peacefully. I do not blame girls at all in all this situation & I do not blame them for not standing up because when their mother refused to help then whom to look forward to?
I commend the bravery of the youngest daughter, I hope that was the first time that maniac tried to attack her but she didnt let him have her & reported. Its really commendable that she didnt let her life to be lived in all this sadness & sorrow just like her other sisters & taught him a lesson.
At first, we should not take any word from that guy as truth maybe he tried to escape by saying that not all children were fathered by him or maybe he simply wanted to lessen his punishment by tarnishing / blaming the young girls.
But, by any chance, if he is right & those girls were involved with some other man/men too still we need to sympathise with them that maybe they fell in love with someone, told him about their story & that guy took advantage of them by promising of marriage but later on simply used them like this maniac & left forever. The girl / girls might have trusted this new person & looked upon as saviour & when he advanced they dint stop because this was their blind trust in the guy plus this s****al act was not new for them & they were used to it. But being an illiterate they were unable to understand that even if this new man is claiming to be their saviour, this should be done under a marital contract which could give this relationship a legal meaning. I blame girls only to be used by this new person & that's the 2% I was referring in my earlier post. But still this case needs to be looked with sympathy rather than giving them 80 lashes punishment for no mistake of their own. They should be counselled & as already their stories are being published in newspapers, most of the ppl like us must be feeling from their heart for them. I wish some good character ppl come forward & marry & protect them for the rest of their lives & help them lessen the pain of what they have undergone.
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Kids at the age of 12-14 are still considered as children. That's the time they start understanding their existence but their innocent feelings were brutally crushed by this maniac. I can imagine what fear & trauma they must have undergone by not able to understand why this father figure is behaving in an uncomfortable way & then the trauma they underwent thru him. I am sure they must have hid the reality at first because no one wants to be accused of such things but later on their only hope & protection, their mum, also turned them down they were left of no choice. I am sure for first few times they must have reacted very badly & tried to defend themselves but any child of such age is helpless & powerless in front of a man double or triple their age. What I feel that once they knew that no one is going to save them & they lost their faith & hope in the most respectful relations, they must have given up to his wishes, because whatever is happening forcefully let it happen peacefully. I do not blame girls at all in all this situation & I do not blame them for not standing up because when their mother refused to help then whom to look forward to?
I commend the bravery of the youngest daughter, I hope that was the first time that maniac tried to attack her but she didnt let him have her & reported. Its really commendable that she didnt let her life to be lived in all this sadness & sorrow just like her other sisters & taught him a lesson.
At first, we should not take any word from that guy as truth maybe he tried to escape by saying that not all children were fathered by him or maybe he simply wanted to lessen his punishment by tarnishing / blaming the young girls.
But, by any chance, if he is right & those girls were involved with some other man/men too still we need to sympathise with them that maybe they fell in love with someone, told him about their story & that guy took advantage of them by promising of marriage but later on simply used them like this maniac & left forever. The girl / girls might have trusted this new person & looked upon as saviour & when he advanced they dint stop because this was their blind trust in the guy plus this s****al act was not new for them & they were used to it. But being an illiterate they were unable to understand that even if this new man is claiming to be their saviour, this should be done under a marital contract which could give this relationship a legal meaning. I blame girls only to be used by this new person & that's the 2% I was referring in my earlier post. But still this case needs to be looked with sympathy rather than giving them 80 lashes punishment for no mistake of their own. They should be counselled & as already their stories are being published in newspapers, most of the ppl like us must be feeling from their heart for them. I wish some good character ppl come forward & marry & protect them for the rest of their lives & help them lessen the pain of what they have undergone.
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CONFUSE ............ if you cannot convince!
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