Alfies older sister had a child at 13, so in my view there is NO parenting going on in this home.
I know I may sound old fashiond and I do not make apologies for this; but what on earth are kids having sex at that young age? It's almost like morals are going to hell in a handcart. At 13 he should be still playing out with his mates, climbing trees etc not having sex and she is only 15! Same goes for her. I am not so stupid to not understand that as teenagers hormones are at full flow but that has ALWAYS been the case and yet we managed to keep it under control and I think the simple reason being of the SHAME one wold have felt. The very thought of a girl having sex outseide marriage when I was young was frowned upon and the shame of having a child out of wedlock was awful.
I am not saying we should go back to the bad old days were young women were locked away and made to give their babies away. People all over the world have had sex when not married and there has always been kids born outside maariage but now it seems the NORM and nothing to be ashamed off.
It's all wrong and I think it is down to crap parenting and lack of discipline in schools and sex education is laughable.
I actually don't think that child is his, but that's another story!
Alfies older sister had a child at 13, so in my view there is NO parenting going on in this home.
I know I may sound old fashiond and I do not make apologies for this; but what on earth are kids having sex at that young age? It's almost like morals are going to hell in a handcart. At 13 he should be still playing out with his mates, climbing trees etc not having sex and she is only 15! Same goes for her. I am not so stupid to not understand that as teenagers hormones are at full flow but that has ALWAYS been the case and yet we managed to keep it under control and I think the simple reason being of the SHAME one wold have felt. The very thought of a girl having sex outseide marriage when I was young was frowned upon and the shame of having a child out of wedlock was awful.
I am not saying we should go back to the bad old days were young women were locked away and made to give their babies away. People all over the world have had sex when not married and there has always been kids born outside maariage but now it seems the NORM and nothing to be ashamed off.
It's all wrong and I think it is down to crap parenting and lack of discipline in schools and sex education is laughable.
I actually don't think that child is his, but that's another story!