fubar - refer to jj's comment above to see why people think that "their kids are SAFE while jumping up and down on the back seat", and don't think that "wearing a seltbelt makes you less likely to be hurt in an accident", and don't think that "driving while talking on a mobile phone is dangerous".

They seriously believe that if god decides you're going to die that day then you're going to die, regardless of what they do. This is the attitude that needs to be changed. That wont be easy.