PEACE BE UPON YOU,WELL I DO NOT BELIEVE THAT all people in orphanages stay uneducated and poor in lebanon we have very respected orphanages and all people do donate to them and we have in islam takkafful which means without taking that child home to live with you you sponsor his studies and most of his needs you visit him and can take him out sometimes ,children in this orphanages do go to school we pay our zakat and kaffara or our money obligations to the poor to these places.it is much easier than killing you child no woman will ever forget this in her life believe me,you will always think of this baby,