dragonfly212 said "i know guys, i told her that. and i forget to mentioned above that in his previous relationship with his ex, he told my gf that he always communicate with his ex everyday but why he dont do it with my girlfriend?"
- Maybe because he had been hurt by previous gf, he was making all the effort but no use so now concentrating on his work. Warning bells emotional baggage. Not over previous gf. He was the doormat, now he wants a doormat. Both parties should meet each other halfway - they should communicate their perceptions to each other and clarify how to move forward (or not).
Note: Someone who is very busy at work, loads of meetings to attend, business networking and with this troubled financial times, is really extremely busy with hardly time to breathe. He's not two timing her actually. In his mind, he's not thinking about her but about work problems. When she calls or textes him, it shifts his focus away from work and he will be emotionally happy that his girl is thinking about him. But after a short while thereafter, work takes primary focus again. This can go on for a few years and the girl will be able to take this if she also has a life. If not very busy with her own life, she'll want attention.
Having said that, however busy someone is, can always spare a moment for someone important to them.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
dragonfly212 said "i know guys, i told her that. and i forget to mentioned above that in his previous relationship with his ex, he told my gf that he always communicate with his ex everyday but why he dont do it with my girlfriend?"
- Maybe because he had been hurt by previous gf, he was making all the effort but no use so now concentrating on his work. Warning bells emotional baggage. Not over previous gf. He was the doormat, now he wants a doormat. Both parties should meet each other halfway - they should communicate their perceptions to each other and clarify how to move forward (or not).
Note: Someone who is very busy at work, loads of meetings to attend, business networking and with this troubled financial times, is really extremely busy with hardly time to breathe. He's not two timing her actually. In his mind, he's not thinking about her but about work problems. When she calls or textes him, it shifts his focus away from work and he will be emotionally happy that his girl is thinking about him. But after a short while thereafter, work takes primary focus again. This can go on for a few years and the girl will be able to take this if she also has a life. If not very busy with her own life, she'll want attention.
Having said that, however busy someone is, can always spare a moment for someone important to them.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama