will allways rage on and I have some very close family experiences on this one. I believe it has to be a woman's choice and if that woman is not capable of making the choice then women who understand the choice should help her.
What I do know is that us mere males should have no say, power or opinion in the matter. A woman's body is her own and any man who dares to tell a woman what to do in this circumstance shows a complete lack of understanding and empathy. I dont often admit to it (and my wife cannot even see this post!!) but it really is up to you sisters