Why the collateral attack against me? Trying to point to me and say ‘hey, this is all your fault’. How defensive you are and desperate indeed! You are asking me if i’ve been unfaithful? Do you have locus standi.... i mean, that’s tantamount to an unfounded accusation. "Ei incumbit probation qui dicit, non qui negat" (He who asserts, not he who denies, must prove)" You are saying that Im a nagger, jealous, always spying....based on what? Based on his words? I thought you said he was a liar. Now you are accusing me based on his lies. You were able to access his Friendster account and saw me and our kids. I thought you said you didn’t know that he’s married. That’s hypocrisy. Justifying your sins and pointing me as the culprit. By the way, a lady should not believe someone who is capable of betraying his own family. It was your choice to believe his lies... it was your choice to believe on him... That is dumbness. I agree, legal wife is never committed to the mistress. But the mistress is very much responsible for the rift created in one’s family. She may not be committed but she is liable. Know the distinction. It takes two to tango. A man becomes a good actor/liar in the presence of a gullible, unwary and desperate woman. A man cannot cheat by himself... he needs a partner to consummate the crime of concubinage. You consented girl... you allowed yourself to be used.... you wanted to cheat.... Don’t spit over your head. As to the property, let’s leave that issue to the court to decide. Soon.........
Again, I did not write to argue nor to flaunt my intelligence. It’s a wake up call not to me because I am very much awake.... . I didn’t write to get sympathy neither to be attacked collaterally by the mistress hiding behind pants. Like I said, it’s a wake up call. I know I’m not a perfect wife but that does not justify infidelity. Especially You who consciously know. If you think that it was my fault, why did you hide your affair? Why you didnt stand up for your illicit affair? If you think you are justified being a mistress, paramour, querida, kabit, why you did not declare your love for him? You knew from the start that everything about your affair was despicable and immoral. God who freed his people from slavery was thereafter betrayed... who am I, not perfect..not a deity, to be exempted from the whips of betrayal.
Im moving on. If only I could forward my life.... I want to live a happy and peaceful life...without you my dear husband.....
Why the collateral attack against me? Trying to point to me and say ‘hey, this is all your fault’. How defensive you are and desperate indeed! You are asking me if i’ve been unfaithful? Do you have locus standi.... i mean, that’s tantamount to an unfounded accusation. "Ei incumbit probation qui dicit, non qui negat" (He who asserts, not he who denies, must prove)" You are saying that Im a nagger, jealous, always spying....based on what? Based on his words? I thought you said he was a liar. Now you are accusing me based on his lies. You were able to access his Friendster account and saw me and our kids. I thought you said you didn’t know that he’s married. That’s hypocrisy. Justifying your sins and pointing me as the culprit. By the way, a lady should not believe someone who is capable of betraying his own family. It was your choice to believe his lies... it was your choice to believe on him... That is dumbness. I agree, legal wife is never committed to the mistress. But the mistress is very much responsible for the rift created in one’s family. She may not be committed but she is liable. Know the distinction. It takes two to tango. A man becomes a good actor/liar in the presence of a gullible, unwary and desperate woman. A man cannot cheat by himself... he needs a partner to consummate the crime of concubinage. You consented girl... you allowed yourself to be used.... you wanted to cheat.... Don’t spit over your head. As to the property, let’s leave that issue to the court to decide. Soon.........
Again, I did not write to argue nor to flaunt my intelligence. It’s a wake up call not to me because I am very much awake.... . I didn’t write to get sympathy neither to be attacked collaterally by the mistress hiding behind pants. Like I said, it’s a wake up call. I know I’m not a perfect wife but that does not justify infidelity. Especially You who consciously know. If you think that it was my fault, why did you hide your affair? Why you didnt stand up for your illicit affair? If you think you are justified being a mistress, paramour, querida, kabit, why you did not declare your love for him? You knew from the start that everything about your affair was despicable and immoral. God who freed his people from slavery was thereafter betrayed... who am I, not perfect..not a deity, to be exempted from the whips of betrayal.
Im moving on. If only I could forward my life.... I want to live a happy and peaceful life...without you my dear husband.....