blablabla said, EM, Why cann't these women be broad minded and remain unhurt while accomodating other women in their lives? After all, all women have right for men, why remain unmarried for life? "

I see your point, of course. It depends on the individual circumstances one is faced with. I guess we would weigh the good and the harm in deciding what course of actions fits us best individually. Eg. A man may marry another because she and her children really need financial and emotional support. If it's one, maybe plausible. But if he has a battalion of needy women, then ...

Always subjective and a very fine line - because of this, the opportunistic (was it 80%? Lol!) of the population will endeavour ceaselessly to take advantage of anything and everything.

/Bottom line - only 10% are honest and out of that 10%, 9.99% are attached, engaged or married. Waiting for a star to fall and a blue moon for the 0.001% ... (0.009% are gay)... Soooo, nothing wrong with staying single and not settling for less than what we deserve.

//There was a line in one of Celine Dion's songs... hmm.. "Treat her like a lady" "rather be alone than be used". Uhuh.

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