to brought it out in the open (as in the forum), a sort of an outlet as I say. Secondly, I agree the first thing that comes in your head when you 'discovered' the unfaithfulness of your partner is 'to revenge'. But question is, to who? To your hubby? To the 'other party'? My own opinion , nobody is a winner here, all are losers. Legally, you can file a case against him or to the other woman (if she's married) to our own court in Phils. I'm sure you're educated enough to put these all in diplomacy and restrain yourself of thinking 'bad' thoughts. In other scenario, women who undergo this situation must have a confidante or a psychologist because 80% of them falls on depression. I suggest, you think it through and speak to your close family member, a trusted or seek professional counseling. Hope all ends well with you and be courageous, trust yourself:)
"I do live by the motto that pessimists are usually right, but all the great change in history was done by optimists" -Thomas Friedman
to brought it out in the open (as in the forum), a sort of an outlet as I say. Secondly, I agree the first thing that comes in your head when you 'discovered' the unfaithfulness of your partner is 'to revenge'. But question is, to who? To your hubby? To the 'other party'? My own opinion , nobody is a winner here, all are losers. Legally, you can file a case against him or to the other woman (if she's married) to our own court in Phils. I'm sure you're educated enough to put these all in diplomacy and restrain yourself of thinking 'bad' thoughts. In other scenario, women who undergo this situation must have a confidante or a psychologist because 80% of them falls on depression. I suggest, you think it through and speak to your close family member, a trusted or seek professional counseling. Hope all ends well with you and be courageous, trust yourself:)
"I do live by the motto that pessimists are usually right, but all the great change in history was done by optimists" -Thomas Friedman