Very sorry to hear of your trauma. And very well said. Agree with you.

Note: "Vengeance is best served when cold."

This will be pre-meditation, please do not take it too far because you have others eg. your children to think about. BUT yes, form a plan, keep it legal, set it into action and bury him if he doesn't take any measures to rectify his callous behaviour. Good luck.

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