Abuimad, I am also continually astinonished at the intractable inability of (most of) the Israelis to ever see the other side. But then they have been exposed to the best propaganda machine in the world for so long. It's amazing what that kind of a focused, relentless, one-point campaign can do. But, I must add that most Israelis have been personally affected by a suicide bombing. They will tell you that this is the source of their anger and motivation for their actions.
Mandi