oh no.. that's not what i said.. ok.. let's put it this way... for me the look is not a priority..I didn't care whether he is handsome or not... for me the brian comes first, in front of everything... And i would never choose attractive guy with no brain... but i was lucky: goodlooking and at the same time smart guys were around.. that's what i mean...
and actually, it is so individual...

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“You become responsible forever for what you have tamed”. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry