Catty, wrong thinking that the chubby and homely ones are not just as arrogant and pain in the neck! i was once with a chubby one, having the same thinking. i treated him very well, and what did he do? he cheated on me. wtf. and he didn't just cheat once, he cheated and had been cheating all the time we were together! oh well, quit on him the moment i found out. he was dumbfounded. i deserved better, and i sure did.

one thing i can say, if we keep getting the same treatment from the men we go with, we should start asking ourselves. sometimes how we behave with men solicit such behavior from them.

or maybe you're just plain unlucky with men so far. but be fair, not all the handsome men are arrogant creeps. some are really cool. like a friend of mine just told me, "not all the fingers in your hand are the same."