FS, such thinking among muslim, especially palestinian, mothers is triggered by the religious teachings of Islam. Yes muslims love to die for the religion. Prophet Abraham loved to sacrifice his lone son on God's command.
Protecting one's honor is a religious duty of muslim. You simply cann't stop it however absurd you may find it. Only thing you can do is to understand their plight and force Israel to revert from its path. Just blaming palestinians won't solve the problem. Instead of advocating justice just blaming the victims is not wise.
Almost all countries were colonies under some other's rule and rightfully got freedom eventually. Why not the same happening to Palestine? Why the international community is turning blind eye to the problem.
Go back Israel.