I see there are two stages of marriage or relationship. The first or initial stage is the stage where bonding between the 2 people is largely on physical attraction. The next stage is the stage where the relationship evolves or transform to an emotional attachment. In the second stage, people carry on with their marriage based on the bonding through emotional attachment to each other.
The time of the transition from first stage to the second stage varies from individuals to individuals.
Unfortunately, many people, especially the young ones or the romantic idealistic trashy romance novel lovers, are too naive to believe that their marriage can stay in the first stage forever and ever, In the worse case, they even believe they can have both stages at all time.
As for the Teluguy, I guess he might have successfully reached the second stage but the problem is he believes that there are rainbows to be chased. Eagle is right that he should not compare with others.
I see there are two stages of marriage or relationship. The first or initial stage is the stage where bonding between the 2 people is largely on physical attraction. The next stage is the stage where the relationship evolves or transform to an emotional attachment. In the second stage, people carry on with their marriage based on the bonding through emotional attachment to each other.
The time of the transition from first stage to the second stage varies from individuals to individuals.
Unfortunately, many people, especially the young ones or the romantic idealistic trashy romance novel lovers, are too naive to believe that their marriage can stay in the first stage forever and ever, In the worse case, they even believe they can have both stages at all time.
As for the Teluguy, I guess he might have successfully reached the second stage but the problem is he believes that there are rainbows to be chased. Eagle is right that he should not compare with others.