eagle mam said
"I have met quite a number of married men who tell me that they've never met someone like me before, they really feel THE connection, very comfortable with me, how they are unhappy with their wives, something missing, how they deserve happiness ... bs...."
You admit men get comfort in other women's company then you say you are looking for that ideal man who is not among them...gud luck..because most men find what the other person eating as delicious..
"It's his choice what he wants to do, takes the advise or leaves it. .."
By the way, what your advice has to do with teleguy when he has decided what he is gonna do..

"Nope - shoot him."
I don't think so as you are doing the mistake of marrying him...anyway why shoot him when you have the other option open...