Teluguy - "I just think I haven't enjoyed this life as many others do"
So that's the root of the problem. Try not to compare yourself with others. When you do, you will never be happy. There will always be someone smarter than you, richer than you, have a more beautiful wife than you, have loads more fun than you, etc. the list is endless.
Have you thought about other people who are dumber than you, poorer than you, etc?
There are pros and cons to every situation - whether work, marriage, friendship, etc. Life is what you make of it, by God's grace. Focus on the positives, like how good/kind your wife is to you, taking care of you, etc.
/Routine and depression - have a hobby so you continue to learn and grow as a person.
Did you say that since you got married, your attention and focus is her? Then before familiarity breeds contempt, have a hobby separate from home. Err... isn't this why guys have football while the gals go shopping? Living in each other's pockets is suffocating.
Important to have leisure time together to grow together as a family and leisure time (not work time) apart to grow individually. There's a balance to be struck and I agree that with the busy work schedules to earn money and then home to wife and family, it's very difficult to balance out. Perhaps this is the actual root of your problem, the other one simply being secondary or added on.
May you find that balance you need. All the best to you.
Teluguy - "I just think I haven't enjoyed this life as many others do"
So that's the root of the problem. Try not to compare yourself with others. When you do, you will never be happy. There will always be someone smarter than you, richer than you, have a more beautiful wife than you, have loads more fun than you, etc. the list is endless.
Have you thought about other people who are dumber than you, poorer than you, etc?
There are pros and cons to every situation - whether work, marriage, friendship, etc. Life is what you make of it, by God's grace. Focus on the positives, like how good/kind your wife is to you, taking care of you, etc.
/Routine and depression - have a hobby so you continue to learn and grow as a person.
Did you say that since you got married, your attention and focus is her? Then before familiarity breeds contempt, have a hobby separate from home. Err... isn't this why guys have football while the gals go shopping? Living in each other's pockets is suffocating.
Important to have leisure time together to grow together as a family and leisure time (not work time) apart to grow individually. There's a balance to be struck and I agree that with the busy work schedules to earn money and then home to wife and family, it's very difficult to balance out. Perhaps this is the actual root of your problem, the other one simply being secondary or added on.
May you find that balance you need. All the best to you.