Heero_yuy2 said 'if you're a good guy,ur woman has no reason to cheat' ...
- True.
"Or maybe the question is: How do women define their own description of a good guy? Women love to talk about such descriptions, but they never fall for the right description they wanted."
- True to large extent - because women are generally ruled by their emotions and we all know how illogical those can be and unstable. The women who are not ruled by their emotions tend to be misinterpreted as "not interested" or "not interested in men" lol! ie lesbos.
Some really are either of the aforementioned 2, but others are actually "not interested until we see the qualities look for in a man". NB: These qualities vary - some look for character, IQ, EQ, looks OR quite a number (perhaps many but definitely not all) look for a fat wallet to be put in a lifestyle she would like to be accustomed to. That is the unpleasant truth, no recriminations about being a traitor to other women, but it is the truth.
For the ones who look for a cash cow, I will say that financial wealth is fleeting. You may have it for a few or many years but you can lose it. IQ and character will remain, EQ once learned will also remain and these are the things that are important, even if you lose your financial wealth. Some people I know have been so used to having money that now when their husbands lost their jobs or had to take massive pay cuts, they have to tighten their belts, they are so depressed, etc. and can't handle things and basically fall apart. This, in turn causes other problems - pressures on the already stressed out husbands, etc. into a downward spiral.
"Maybe women, in this case, is all just talk. Maybe women really wanted the 'goods' of a guy, but not the good guy itself, specially in this modern materialistic world... "
- Some are all just talk but it appears that's not the case for the women respondents to this thread. The general description is what we're talking about and each individual has to work out the specifics.
By the way, just because a person and his friends think he's a good guy, doesn't necessarily mean he is what a particular individual is looking for.
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Heero_yuy2 said 'if you're a good guy,ur woman has no reason to cheat' ...
- True.
"Or maybe the question is: How do women define their own description of a good guy? Women love to talk about such descriptions, but they never fall for the right description they wanted."
- True to large extent - because women are generally ruled by their emotions and we all know how illogical those can be and unstable. The women who are not ruled by their emotions tend to be misinterpreted as "not interested" or "not interested in men" lol! ie lesbos.
Some really are either of the aforementioned 2, but others are actually "not interested until we see the qualities look for in a man". NB: These qualities vary - some look for character, IQ, EQ, looks OR quite a number (perhaps many but definitely not all) look for a fat wallet to be put in a lifestyle she would like to be accustomed to. That is the unpleasant truth, no recriminations about being a traitor to other women, but it is the truth.
For the ones who look for a cash cow, I will say that financial wealth is fleeting. You may have it for a few or many years but you can lose it. IQ and character will remain, EQ once learned will also remain and these are the things that are important, even if you lose your financial wealth. Some people I know have been so used to having money that now when their husbands lost their jobs or had to take massive pay cuts, they have to tighten their belts, they are so depressed, etc. and can't handle things and basically fall apart. This, in turn causes other problems - pressures on the already stressed out husbands, etc. into a downward spiral.
"Maybe women, in this case, is all just talk. Maybe women really wanted the 'goods' of a guy, but not the good guy itself, specially in this modern materialistic world... "
- Some are all just talk but it appears that's not the case for the women respondents to this thread. The general description is what we're talking about and each individual has to work out the specifics.
By the way, just because a person and his friends think he's a good guy, doesn't necessarily mean he is what a particular individual is looking for.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama