Azi, I am so, so sorry to hear that. It actually brings tears to my eyes to read your story, especially when I hear of separation from your own children. I visited the extended family of the Sri Lankan chap when I was in his country and made sure they were comfortable (they lost everything in the tsunami), and I helped rescue his sister from a cruel employer in Beirut. I know it wasn't much, but I try to do what I can to help.