This story either could be true or fake but given a chance if this is true I suggest this to you kashish:
1. Now as you are already married to him & you were aware of the fact of his child + wife from day one, there is no need to widen the gap more. Just be realistic & accept them as your relatives too & be good with them. Be good with your husband too & respect & love him because now you are not a naive teenager anymore but a responsible wife. Like your husband has responsibilities towards you same thing applies to you too. This is a slow process but in the end, you'll be able to win the trust, respect & love of not even your husband but his family members too.
2. If you cannot share your husband's love with another wife n her kids, then Islam provides women with the option of Khula. Just go ahead & do that. No need to create confusions or double your troubles. You can arrange a meeting with your parents & husband & in a decent way you can explain that this marriage is not happening & because he already has a kid with his first wife & you cannot ruin their life by constantly asking him to divorce that lady so better that you both split in a decent way but after that you should not see each other. I am sure if he too wants to get rid of you & he is educated enough, he'll not complain. But if he complains & he doesnt want to leave you then this means that maybe this relationship started out of lust but now he really loves you & cares for you. The only thing you can do in this situation is just request him to provide you a separate accomodation in Qatar & in Bangladesh if you ppl have to go there permanently, I am sure he'll listen. You should put this in mind that once you seek khula (separation) from him do you think anyone from your community would marry you? considering the fact that this was a love marriage. The blame will come on you that she cannot live under matrimonial tie & is characterless that first she left her parents for this guy & then she left this guy for someone else.
3. You should remove the details from your post & errotic substance. I might not know you but your relatives or siblings when they read this how they would react & how your husband would react when he sees you are calling him bastard in a public forum & everyone is making fun of his wife (you) by not beliving you. So just dont invite trouble for yourself & start acting & behaving like a mature person I am sure you'll be okay. Humans make mistakes & this is natural otherwise we would all have been angels without wings. But if you learn from the mistake you have done & promise yourself that you are never going to repeat this again & try to live a noble life I am sure God will forgive you too for this. Love everyone around you, who care for you & who have brought you up after passing through all odds & love this man who has married you. Its not only you my dear who fought for him by all but you should think this way too that he must have fought for you too by taking approvals from his family & most importantly by his first wife & kid. I would like to see some positive contributions from yourside in the future because the concerned ppl like me would like to see you succeed.
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CONFUSE ............ if you cannot convince!
This story either could be true or fake but given a chance if this is true I suggest this to you kashish:
1. Now as you are already married to him & you were aware of the fact of his child + wife from day one, there is no need to widen the gap more. Just be realistic & accept them as your relatives too & be good with them. Be good with your husband too & respect & love him because now you are not a naive teenager anymore but a responsible wife. Like your husband has responsibilities towards you same thing applies to you too. This is a slow process but in the end, you'll be able to win the trust, respect & love of not even your husband but his family members too.
2. If you cannot share your husband's love with another wife n her kids, then Islam provides women with the option of Khula. Just go ahead & do that. No need to create confusions or double your troubles. You can arrange a meeting with your parents & husband & in a decent way you can explain that this marriage is not happening & because he already has a kid with his first wife & you cannot ruin their life by constantly asking him to divorce that lady so better that you both split in a decent way but after that you should not see each other. I am sure if he too wants to get rid of you & he is educated enough, he'll not complain. But if he complains & he doesnt want to leave you then this means that maybe this relationship started out of lust but now he really loves you & cares for you. The only thing you can do in this situation is just request him to provide you a separate accomodation in Qatar & in Bangladesh if you ppl have to go there permanently, I am sure he'll listen. You should put this in mind that once you seek khula (separation) from him do you think anyone from your community would marry you? considering the fact that this was a love marriage. The blame will come on you that she cannot live under matrimonial tie & is characterless that first she left her parents for this guy & then she left this guy for someone else.
3. You should remove the details from your post & errotic substance. I might not know you but your relatives or siblings when they read this how they would react & how your husband would react when he sees you are calling him bastard in a public forum & everyone is making fun of his wife (you) by not beliving you. So just dont invite trouble for yourself & start acting & behaving like a mature person I am sure you'll be okay. Humans make mistakes & this is natural otherwise we would all have been angels without wings. But if you learn from the mistake you have done & promise yourself that you are never going to repeat this again & try to live a noble life I am sure God will forgive you too for this. Love everyone around you, who care for you & who have brought you up after passing through all odds & love this man who has married you. Its not only you my dear who fought for him by all but you should think this way too that he must have fought for you too by taking approvals from his family & most importantly by his first wife & kid. I would like to see some positive contributions from yourside in the future because the concerned ppl like me would like to see you succeed.
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
CONFUSE ............ if you cannot convince!