hey i dont want to get into this conversation, but only want to say one thing to lisa.
Please, I don't need compassionate talk, just treat me like a normal person.
if this what you meant, i sujest you behave a bid polite than now and you will surely be treated very nice.
here on ql. every body are very good to each other. we dont talk like this in ql community. so pls be calm !!

thanks